Husband A Protector
He should never be inferior in front of others. Don't let others know his weakness. The woman said something like "Go, do your job, who brought you here?" By saying so, you do your own thing, by doing so. Mental balance gets disturbed.
Some husbands blame their wives in front of their parents. What kind of problems can happen in the house? A woman may also have weakness. But never blame your wife before your parents. When people are together, no matter how many problems can arise, the problem does not arise because of the mistake of someone. But in almost every household, arms are blamed. If it is with the tacit consent of the husband. So who can understand the pain of a woman? Is your wife lonely and sad at home for no reason? Are you alone with others? You are his only refuge in sorrow, hardship and pain. You will always keep this in mind.
Just as you love to walk around wearing nice clothes, you should also dress your wife in nice clothes. I still remember one of our family incidents. Three-four years of our marriage have passed. For some reason my wife started crying. I got angry and left the door behind me. After some time when I came back, my wife Kandhuthle too. I went to him and tried to console him. Then she wept and said, "When I was very sad and wept, you stood beside me and comforted me, but then you left me alone and went out." Then I realized my mistake. A woman may cry for a small matter, but it is the duty of a man to reassure her!
It is not right to leave all the responsibilities of the house on the wife. The husband is also responsible for the upbringing of the child, giving them basic education, treatment, etc. In the same way, husband's attention should be paid to the wife in times of need. If she gets any disease, the husband should take her to the doctor's office as far as possible. It is not right to entrust his responsibility to someone else. You need yourself.
Do you apologize to your wife for doing something wrong? Or there is no repair for your home after making any mistakes. She is my wife. Do you think that I will do what I want? If you hurt him, then apologize too.
You should not rule yourself in front of your children or your parents. Your wife is the queen of your family. Just as a husband needs rest, so does a wife. Being weaker than a man, you may need a lot of rest. If you help her with housework then she can get rest.
A house has many functions. If the number of children increases, the work also increases. I have seen this in some families, after the husband comes from the office, he rests by reading the newspaper. He has no time to worry about any household chores.
But if you think that working until midnight is just a side job, then it's not right. With the help of her husband, her work can be completed quickly. He can also rest. Then great respect and love for her husband will arise in her mind.
When the children do not obey the father, then they should be disciplined and punished. In some homes, children quarrel with their mothers, but the father does not even pay attention. This saddens the mother's heart. His dignity is humbled in front of the children. In this situation, the honor of the woman should be protected by giving appropriate punishment to the child.
You should talk openly with your husband and wife. With friends, with neighbors, tea? Talk to the shopkeeper and other people, and you have time for that, but talk to the woman. If you don't have time to speak, it's your big mistake. You are being unfair to your wife.
Husband, never keep your wife in chains. Win her heart not only in admiration, but in love He should be authorized to act exclusively. If he wants to go to his house, then definitely give him permission to go. Keep in mind that you can also send some things like sweets, clothes etc. to the in-laws' house depending on your financial situation. It is not a bad thing to maintain relations with a woman's parents and relatives. A woman's relationship with her home is not severed after marriage. Just like her husband, she must be given the freedom to maintain family relationships. Children's birthdays and annual festivals are very important for women. Always remember them, don't forget to give importance to that day.
❤ Writer by Jaga Santa
