Here are 6 questions to ask yourself when you feel sad and how to respond if you do.
Question 1: Am I being punished by God for my sins?
If yes: confess and leave the sin of denial
Question 2: Am I preparing for a special service to be kind to those who are suffering?
If yes: Don't be self-pitying. Pray for God to open doors of opportunity and help you discover others who are suffering like you.
Question 3: Is Satan attacking me while I try to live a true Christian life?
If yes: Pray to God for strength.
Question 4: Am I specially chosen to be tested like Job?
If yes: Get help from church members. Trust God to accomplish His purpose through you.
Question 5: Is my suffering the result of natural consequences for which I am not directly responsible?
If yes: Know that both the righteous and the wicked will suffer in this sinful world. But for the righteous, God has promised that one day their suffering will end.
Question 6: Is my sadness for an unknown reason?
If yes: Don't suffer yourself to be sad in your heart. Trust God knowing that He cares for you and patiently wait for His help.